Most of my posts over the last six months have been about how overwhelming and difficult our international move was. (Exhibit A, Exhibit B, Exhibit C.) But now that we’ve been here for nearly three months and finally received our stuff (two-and-a-half months after it left Sweden!), it’s starting to feel like the move is over….
Life in Sweden
On Overwhelm
In 2014, we moved to Sweden and we had our second child, Leif. Having a baby and moving internationally in the same year was incredibly stressful, and I vowed not to do it again. Well, it’s 2017, I had a baby a few months ago, and we’re preparing to move back to the US. That thing…
A Huge Announcement
So, I have something to tell you.
A Wonderfully Quirky Swedish Spring Tradition
In my last post, I wrote about a rather sedate spring tradition in Sweden. This weekend, we attended one of the quirkiest traditions we’ve heard of: the spring cow release, or kosläpp.
Life in Sweden: Community Cleaning Days
Now that spring has (finally!) come to our part of Sweden, communities are having their biannual fixardagar or städdagar (fixing days or cleaning days). Most communities, be they neighborhoods, marinas, apartment or condo associations, or parent-cooperative preschools, have a day in the spring (and another in the fall) when members of the community get together to do whatever…
Raising Gender-Neutral Kids in Sweden
Last Thursday, when I arrived at school to pick up the boys before the long weekend, Leif was wearing a hot pink skirt over his pants. They’d done some dress-up for Easter and he hadn’t taken off the skirt yet. When I commented on it (“I love your pink skirt!”), he seemed pleased and proud, then continued to…
A Great Thing Sweden Does For New Babies (and Their Families)
I remember the first time we went to the pediatrician when August, our first, was born. It was within the first week of leaving the hospital, and it was our first excursion out of the house with the baby. It took us at least thirty minutes to get ready—we had to pack the diaper bag, get…
Making Friends As An Adult in the US and Sweden
I’ve been thinking a lot about relationships—particularly friendships—as part of my happiness project these last few months. It’s also something I think about as an immigrant living in a foreign country. I have been blessed to have some of the very best friends in the world, but, unfortunately, they all live an ocean—or an ocean and a…
Winter in Sweden: the Basics
It’s time to talk about winter in Sweden. A while back I wrote about summer in Sweden, essentially saying that it’s like heaven. And winter? Well, winter can feel like the opposite; or if not quite like hell, then rather like a long, slow slog uphill through waist-deep snow in the dark with clouds covering…
A Very Swedish Holiday: Lucia
Today is December 13—better known in Sweden as Lucia. It’s a lovely holiday meant to celebrate the bringing of light into the dark, dark winter. It used to correspond with the winter solstice on December 21 or 22, but these days it coincides with St. Lucia’s day on the 13th.